Relationships aren’t always 50/50

Humans are complicated. Getting along with them? Also complicated. But here’s a little secret: it gets less complicated when you remember the human part of whoever you’re dealing with… and then choose to respond in a non-human way—gracefully, patiently, and with love.

Every person comes with two lists:

• One full of the things that drive you crazy.

• And one full of the things you love.

Maybe they interrupt too much—but they love unconditionally.

Maybe they’re a chronic complainer—but they’re the first to show up with soup when you’re sick.

Maybe they overshare every ache and pain—but they’re also the one you call when life falls apart.

Relationships thrive not because people are perfect, but because someone chooses to focus on the right list.

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”

—1 Peter 4:8